Hi Shining, I have had to check myself from talking about mom in front of the kids. Back before my W left, she wanted to believe that the kids had no idea that anything was wrong in our M. That she was sleeping on the couch because I snored! (yeah, right). I had to talk to them because they KNEW something was wrong and were scared. Back then I was careful to just say that mom was working things out, she isn't wanting to get a D or leave us, yet.
When I get home tonight I'm going to sit down and talk to my D about what she wants. What I can do for her. Nothing about her mom, just about what she wants!
