Hi Guys, well I heard from my ex-WAW today. She was basically telling me the security deposit check hasn't come yet. She also went on to say the the "almost OM" and her are now on the outs. She said he was a liar and that she's happy she didn't take the bait. She told me she is moving to Florida in a couple months. She also remarked one of my posts on my FB page. She said she hopes we can be friends one day. So I replied to her and basically told her that I can't be friends with her because I still love her. I told her I will always think our divorce was a huge mistake and that we had something together that only happens once in a lifetime if ever. I told her that as long as I am still in love her, trying to forge a friendship would be living a lie. I told her this was all a huge mistake and I will always believe that...that she gave up on our marriage far to easily and far too quickly. I haven't heard back from her yet but I figured the whole not pursuing thing is water under the bridge at this point since it didn't prevent my divorce so at this point I don't care that I "pursued" with me reply. I was honest with her because at this point what have I got to lose, we're already divorced anyway. I will keep you all updated but I spilled my feelings to her...I have nothing to lose at this point by doing so.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14