Remember, sho, to find that line between listening to her "controlling" complaints ... and becoming her "gay boyfriend."
It will be easy (and, frankly, natural) for her to accuse you of being "controlling" when, in actuality, you are laying down healthy boundaries to protect your heart and your family.
Stay STRONG.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014