Major question ? W wants me to keep the fact she is having an affair secret when she leaves > She just wants me to say we are having troubles and need to separate . She doesnt want the kids especially to know shes leaving for another man . I told her no way > If she leaves the whole story has to come out . What should I do > This has increased her hatred towards me . i need help


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )