Correction, I shouldn't say "much" of the time. It happens not infrequently but often people just disappear or dick you around. I try to recognize that most people doing this are feeling very vulnerable and aren't really good at it. So they do what they do. But, that said, I did find a special relationship that lasted almost a year and a half. If I hadn't of waded through the chaffe, I wouldn't have had those memories. Anyway, that's my take on it.
