Thanks Em . Im always happy to read your posts and replies . They truly make me feel better and inspire me to keep trying and dont give up . Its just seems so weird to detach in order to keep trying to save my marriage . It truly is all i think about sometimes . And i cant handle any negativity towards doing what im doing . Trying to save this marriage is my main goal and putting my self first is proving the most difficult of tasks


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )