Ok thanks . But it just seems like one painful day after another lately . I was doing ok till she left . She was gone 4 nights .now shes back and shes not sure whats shes doing . I wish I could get her to stay and work on things with me but the OM is still in the picture . It seems its gonna get harder . I was hoping we bottomed out but no luck yet . Thats something I could use is some good luck


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )