My H recognizes his mom's coldness is an issue with HIM as an adult. He even called himself "too needy" shortly after BD #2.
(He recalls vividly when she was leaving the house in a hurry one day. She backed over and killed the dog. She rushed inside and yelled : "someone come get the dog- I killed it. I'm running late to work!)
Whoa.
Keep being a fabulous mom, GB! It's the most important thing we can do, I think!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
