Hi Dawgy, I'm struggling with the same question re wedding ring. My H removed his immediately when we separated 8 weeks ago. I still wear mine for a few reasons. Emotionally - I don't want to be seen as available when I consider that I am not. Practically - I don't want to have to deal with questions from work colleagues, plus it feels weird not wearing something on that finger.

But I am rethinking my stance after reading another post that suggested that wearing a wedding ring could be interpreted by WAS as pursuing. Rather than go nude, I'm considering getting myself a funky looking ring to wear on that finger to symbolize my current "confused" marital status.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014