That was a much better job. I hope you will consider what your boundaries are. If she ever wants to know what it would take to get the R back. Right now, she still wants a D, but when she sees you being strong and she can't play you for a fool......I think she will start respecting you a little more each time.
A woman has to feel that respect for her H before she can be attracted to him. It goes hand in hand.
Who knows where things may be by October. But just don't get any hurry, there are a lot of issues to work through.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
