Well I contacted her again. She put through a £400 charge on a credit card that I had the account info for, to change the address on the car insurance because her new neighbourhood has more thefts.

So I texted to see if she knew anything about it, and I was preparing to let her have it. But she simply texted back with an explanation and asked me for the info so she could pay. I texted back something like I was hoping that she was safe in that neighourhood, and that I'd send the info by email, and that I was hoping she was having a nice summer holiday and doing well.

Didn't hear back.

From the moment of the breakup, I always had a nagging feeling like I was the 1% exception, that her mind was made up. It happens too, DB acknowledges as much.

I think I really have to brace myself and focus on my new reality. Fix the house, sell up, move on...


M:37
W:38
No kids
Together since 2006, Married since 2010
EA discovered 06/07/2014
W moved out 06/08/2014