Oh my BF, My W has said over and again that she wasn't "happy here". Even said to our D14 when she told her she was leaving that she was doing it because "It's not happy here"! With our D19, she said "You must have felt the unhappiness at home, right?". The MLCer just can't seem to understand that the unhappiness lies within them, no where else! They search and search until there is nothing or no one else left to blame. Then take another couple years to come to terms with the fact that they are the problem. I guess whether there's anyone left from their past that give's a rat butt is how much damage they've done on the way.
