Well the time for our appointment to discuss budget came and went. First h had to go for a walk. Then he had to sit in his car and play around on his phone. Then when I brought it up again he had to run to store.

Then he came home and accused me of changing the Netflix password July 18.( He was reading from an email) I told him I was still on vacation then and it was most likely one of my step kids. (Or just as likely h did it himself but was drunk and doesn't remember)

Then he ran around the house deleting his email from every device so I can't get on it again and hack Netflix. .. can you imagine!
All the while screaming that I am stupid, ignorant, and incompetent. I hate it when people use insults that don't even make sense to the situation.

Then he stormed out and drive down the street way too fast for a residential neighborhood.

Is it possible he concocted the whole scenario to get out of discussing budget?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15