It would be premature for me to say "yes" or "no" right now - but early cautious indicators would point toward yes. There has been a fresher sense of openness about things and I am curious to see if it sustainable and mutual. There have also been signs of trust between us that are kind of "seedlings" at the moment - but could continue to grow. So as of now, I am happy to have her involved again with the life I share with S....time will tell how sustainable it is, but it is progressing slowly with a lot of communication. Nothing physical has transpired, and I am very, very OK with that.
Crimson
RE Her questions or comments about your changes...I'm wondering if there will be a time when YOU can ask her if HER changes are real and lasting.
B/C let's face it, SHE had some big issues that were unresolved -- and which lead to you two not making it last, last spring.
So, Has SHE worked on her nasty internal problems -- and how do you know? A little hesitation on YOUR END, would be a good/great idea.
Do not let her assume you'll be there, standing, regardless of Her choices...
When she speaks about the future or things like you two, do NOT jump in quickly... I'd probably give a vague mysterious answer now & then too,
such as "Yikes, let's take this slowly b/c --- I'm NOT ready for 'X' just yet"...b/c..., well, Crimson... b/c how can you be ready now??
Just a thought, but do be reticent about recommitting. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve.
She will feel pressured by that, and no one wants that.
Hugs to you & to your son too. Keep us posted!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
