"We left our convo with her insisting they were just friends and that they are commiserating with each other. Probably how it started obviously. I know she is lying but clearly my not believing her story set her off"
My W used exact same line to hide her PA affair for four month without thinking of the damage her affair was doing to our family. It took time, luck, some Snooping and her carelessness for me to find out the truth. I was lucky to find her secret affair cell phone in her overnight bag during one of her visit home.
Going by the call log and text, W got the cell phone three weeks into the affair, but took me four month to find out about it. My mouth was wild open reading the texts. I was devastated and shocked going through over 600 text messages in one week between her and OM. The messages between them should have been rated PG 13 by ATT lol. Keep your eyes wild open man!
Now is the the time to take of shodan. focus your time and energy on you. Work on whatever need to be fix in your life and spend your free time with your kids. It work for me and can also work for you.
