Beatrice - I do believe in chemo brain. An acquaintance's wife abruptly left him one day and just left a note on the kitchen table saying she was not coming back - after about 30 years of marriage and her first clean bill of health after lots of chemo. Needless to say he was devastated. They were divorced a few months after BD. However, I'm sure it doesn't affect everyone who has chemo. Everyone's different.

I haven't read your entire thread, but from your register date, you have been at this much longer than I have. I admire your ability to stay sane yourself! Some days I wonder if I'm going off the deep end myself!


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15