Shining, Our BDs are the exact same- #1 and #2!! So sorry we're here.
My H is very mild compared to yours- OW is very unattractive, 2 years older than me and someone he used to complain about regularly...everything from her looks to her personality. They are most definitely not a threat!!
Your first post resonates with me so much! I, also need to detach! It seems the more I want to, the less I am! Let me know if you figure out how to get there!
Last thing: your diner "issue"... SAME HERE!! He used to love cooking, and some point along the way it became a burden and I had no clue.
I'm rooting for ya!!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
