When he was your friend did he say he was trying to make you bananas? So how do you know he's doing that now?
If you were really not focusing on him you wouldn't be writing all this stuff about him. Its showing you think about him all the time and try and second guess his strategies. That isn't Db in any sense. His strategies should be so irrelevant to you that you don't think about them and if you don't think about them you can't post about them. You only work on you.
