Finding my way - part 3

[Maybell]

It's nice to see I'm not alone on the laser focus bandwagon.

You're going to have enough on your plate maintaining detachment when he comes home. Really. A lot. So your list is great, but beware of expecting too much of yourself. Time is on your side means you set a minimum reachable standard of behavior for yourself and then add & adapt as able.

If you're not sure if there is an EA impacting the relationship then I would be concerned about the complaints you knew about before first. You can't eat the elephant, so go with the more reliable information and monitor results.

Please don't forget about yourself when he gets back. You show up on the list with GAL. Make sure to practice good self care. It's not all about him.

Best of luck to you. Sending strength and hugs.