Concern for her needs means you acknowledge that she is a person separate from you with her own specific perspective. When you can see how she sees your actions -- all of them over the course of your entire relationship -- from her point of view And ONLY her point of view, THEN you might be ready to proceed.
In the meantime she has been quite clear that her emotional need is to be done with you. You must respect that.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
