Still confused

[MrBond]

"Question - She took off her wedding ring , should I remove mine too or continue to wear it to show Im not giving up ."

All this is still you trying to control her reaction. If you want to take it off, do it. If you want to leave it on, do it. But you have to stop trying to base your actions off of what you think she is going to think about it.

You said you read the DB/DR book. Go back to that. No expectations of how she should or shouldn't be reacting to something you do.