Just remember Stacy, you cannot control his thoughts or actions only your own. You will find that in the book. When you meet just try to as courteous and upbeat as possible, keep emotions in check, and do not argue over things at this stage. I made mistakes early on and still do from time to time, but the more you stick to it, the better it will get. Read the book, read other stich's on here, and take the advice of the ones that are generous enough to give it. It will get better!!!
