Stacey, I'm in no position to be handing out advice, so I'll hand out a (((hug))) instead. Your story is similar to mine, and I'm just as lost as you are. H and I still live together but are working on a separation, he's looking for an apartment, etc. I have made it clear that I expect that the children will not be exposed in any way to OW while we are still married so I don't think he'll move in with her. We shall see. Good luck Stacey.
