I completely get trying to use the boards to get needs met that were maybe previously met in your relationship. I get it. I do that...it's just, I don't see you trying to find your way outta he!! It's like you are perfectly content to remain there and you just want cheerleaders to give you Atta Boys! when you turn down coffee.
It's frustrating.
I told you my story. I laid it out there for all to see...much like many others have done...my painful past in an effort to help you and your response was pretty much, "My childhood was happy. I'm sorry for you, but that doesn't apply to me."
If it NEVER applies to you, then WHY ARE YOU HERE?
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson