She did WAW, then I did EA, now I'm DBing...poorly

[HeadUp]

You moving out has absolutely nothing to do with custody of the kids. The court is about seeing what is the best solution for the kids. They aren't going to take your kids away from you ad long as you want to be in their lives. The whole calling the cops never works for the guy is a bunch of bs. My W hit her ex and he called the cops and she went to jail. So you were venting to a friend on FB. Was this just on his wall so she could read it? If it was then you need to come at this a little differently then you have been. You know all I see is how she is this and she is doing that and she is mad. Well you are either provoking it and not telling us the whole story or you need to give you W sometime. You being there is only passing her off more. Reading DB and DR suggests that you do 180s. If you staying there is the same thing that you would do you need to change it. If you want your marriage to work you need to do something different. If you don't then you need to do the same thing as you are doing because what you are doing isn't working.