Her advice - keep things non-emotional (reverse of what I did yesterday - give her space - if she wants to talk, just listen - GAL and be a bit mysterious - show her my good qualities - Detach: this is her journey, not mine - be pleasant, act as if - the best thing to do is to NOT do certain things...look at what has not worked and DO NOT do them again - create a safe environment for her to come back to (if she wants) - be kind and decent, don't give her a reason to think I am argumentative or controlling - really work on what is and is not controlling. Do not think that I actually understand this. I clearly do not understand it and need to work on it
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
