Dawgy - here is a super valuable link. I read this and it made me realize that my husband was in MLC Depression. I hope you find it helpful, too. Keep in mind - you can't reason with an MLC person; they have to go on this journey to fix their issues all by themselves. It's hard on them, too.

Anyway - I hope this is a useful link for you!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2177869