Just think it's odd that they sort of erase the past and dive right into something else.
Yes, it is odd and yes that is what they do! Some of them come out - Raine and TVS, others stay in (my xh job, Urworthy etc)
I do not think it is anything we do - although my admiration for those who renegotiate their marriage is immense.
I also think there are the mean ones and the kitty kitten ones - but whatever their words, their actions, in abandoning their previous life, children pets, responsibilities etc., are not nice!
