I have a beautiful friend who has been with me throughout this whole journey and she was the one who started me on the universe journey, as you wake every morning, ask the universe what you want, for me it's small things, and you say it either out loud or in your head, and usually around five times. It's a bit like dbing, you have to look for the small signs...
Also giving thanks to the universe is a big thing too, which I am, I guess this is my spirituality, I don't have a religious belief, and I don't go to church, but I have faith and I always (even on my darkest days) have hope.

I think the ow is certainly exerting her presence in his life and I think it may be getting him a bit stressed, which works in my favor...she's behaving like I did when I was at my worst, telling him what he can and can't do, he may comply for a while but in the end he'll run, look where I am right now....