I do not talk about R right now. I am not suppose to. Our first couples therapy is today. Hopefully that will open some discussion. It is a touchy subject with her. She gets mad at me and shuts down. I am listening to her. However, she wants a D and anything I do to stall her progress is me not listening. She says I do not hear her. She wants a D.
Question is. What about what I want? Do I not get a say? Hell I am getting my couples therapy starting today. This is for me... Reconcile hope. For her... So I can understand her and what she wants. She has given me nothing to go on this far. Other than her decision to D.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
