Originally Posted By: labug

Have you ever gone out and left her in the house with the kids 2 or 3 nights/week?

You should have an agreement that gives you both equal time with the kids.


I have not. Since D-day (5 weeks ago), I've spent two full days with my friends/family and two nights at my parents house (on those same days). My wife has spent at least one day per weekend, and about 10 total nights out at a hotel with the OM.

Last edited by mindsin; 07/28/14 03:26 PM.
M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!