The other thing is in 32 years we never ever ever stayed out to 2 am from 11 AM , even at Disney or on vacation. Why does she do this with him?
Because women are drawn to strong men.
He EXPECTS her to stay out late because that's what HE wants. So she's drawn to his strength and does what he says. Just like the FEW times you have shown strength, she has been drawn to you and done what YOU asked. Unfortunately, you usually are showing no strength at all, just cleaning up her mosquito bites she got while being out with her lover.