"The third time's lucky. "

[TL72*]

Thanks beatrice, I appreciate it. I don't even have a lawyer, I went to one to read over my papers (free consultation) and I signed them on the spot. There was no reason not to because they were in my favor other than I didn't want a divorce. Was trying to avoid any unpleasantness or fighting and so I just signed after the lawyer said they were all good. I showed my brothers and my father all the texts and emails so at least others know about it, I will block his emails and number on my phone and hope he drops it - I don't particularly want to tell anyone at my office about it and if he calls or emails me there again i'll have to though, I don't know if he'll try and get me to lose my job or what. I think I'm just being paranoid but the mind wanders sometimes.