Frankly I wouldn't trust my xh near my car !! - at this point I would be worrying he wanted to cut the brakes or sugar my gas
How pathetic of J to try and cause you to feel foolish.
I do see about the times, but I have learned that they never ever let anything go. Any action or thing I have said or done, however kind, is used against me. I do not think dialogue is possible, and Lord knows I have tried. I don't have to deal with him but he still finds ways to try and reel me in. I suspect that J will prove to be teh same (just sayin - sigh)