Yup yup yup to what everyone said. I am so sorry you had a hard time. But look at these 2 people with clear eyes. Does it really matter what they think?
Heather mentioned that alcoholics project. I am still learning about the disease. I had been thinking that most of the anger and projection we coming from h as WAS or MLC ER. This is an important piece to remember.
And look at it this way. Something good came out of the interaction. You are able to continue to learn about yourself and your triggers and move forwRd. So maybe be grateful to them for being a$$es. ( ha. I am trying to train myself to think this way so not there yet.)
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
