We're not being harsh, we're being honest. I have not read one sentence in your story (and I've followed it closely) in which her needs have even made it onto your radar. Until you truly recognize and desire to meet her needs, she's right to make you a smudge in her rear view mirror. She has almost no life investment in you. Her greatest experience of you is searing pain and continuous disrespect. Why on earth would she be attracted back to you? "Because I want her" isn't a reason for her to feel attracted.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
