As 25years has said to me, several times, "stop that stinkin' thinkin'!"
Reread your recent post noticing all the positives. Friend zone is not where you want to be in the long term, but a) it is a step towards that, and b) certainly better than the "enemy" or "ignore" zone, right?
Stay focused on YOU and the positives.
Your post about how DB has helped you really resonated with me. Everyone here told me when I first got here that DB was for me. And you know what? It has changed my life.
Focusing on what I CAN control, and committing to becoming a better person for ME and my D, has been an amazing benefit to come out of this. That's huge.
