You do realize even if she passes this lie detector test about having a PA, she is still full on in a EA, right. I mean every night she is out with him. I just hope you know this. You can spend money on semen analysis, lie detectors, or whateve, but she is still having quite the EA.
What happened to your boundaries on listening to her talk about him and complain about him to you? How utterly disrespectful . You can't stop her from doing that, but you can say " I am not going to listen to you talk about him" and walk away.
That's exactly what I did. She was telling me that she was really nervous that she though her meetings today started at 11 but they started at 9 AM.
She started saying why she got nothing done yesterday as soon as she said "he" I said, wow, please don't mention him, if you want to talk about your issues fine but just don't bring him up. She said well he was part of the reason I got nothing done so of course he's in the conversation.
So I replied well then I guess we are done talking about it.
This morning when I went to wake her she whined to me, " is today Saturday" I said no it's Monday. An hour later she was up but whipped out her computer and began reviewing some stuff.
Her entire world is about to come crashing down on her.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
