Ok well I am hoping you are getting out of her way man! The last thing you want is to get her to push that big shiny red button and get you lashing back. Obviously she is on a hair pin trigger and still sore from the EA... the underlying reason to justify all her rage at you...but I'm not a vet so take this with a grain of salt.
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She got mad because I was venting to a friend on Facebook when I was frustrated.
Well who's fault is that? Facebook is like broadcasting with a megaphone to the world. And how did she know? Was she in the room or was the pc just left on? She already distrusts you . The more she sees and has evidence of you venting and finding emotional support in others the MORE you drive her away and justify her not trusting you which is the root of all this: she doesn't trust you right? so cut it out. Facebook should be rule #38. I just think its a way to spy on your spouse or cause a whole whack of misunderstandings. I avoid it or just put the fluffy stuff in. Sorry if this sounds tough but I am sure you know better next time how to make sure your healthy venting isn't jeopardizing your dbing.You sound like you have a good handle on how you "dance" together so keep up the good work not buying into her bullying you with her confrontation. These changes will be huge for you and she will notice...she won't trust her eyes since its a brand new you but give it time and don't give up. In your corner man
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
