Let It Go

[BklynMom]

Thanks so much ladies. Your words are so powerful. I am gonna reread them all week.

I have a really hard time not being liked even if I'm not liked by a jerk.

It is something that makes me very uncomfortable and rather then focus on myself I focus on getting the other person to like me.

(Just writing it makes me see what a bad strategy this is)

I also do this at work and while it has led to a fair amount of success I think it prevents me from moving up to my potential because I don't want to step on someone's toes and have them dislike me.

I want to beat my ex and his girlfriend and a debate and have them admit that I right and they are wrong.

Just want to post that my cousin who left her h and kids 2 yrs ago. (She had joint custody but they live with her husband). Admitted to my mother this weekend that she doesn't think she did the right thing by leaving. It only took her 2 1/2 years.