My W is in about the same place as yours. I asked her about her A and she denies it also. Tries to deflect it away by talking about other men and women and asks me why it always comes down to the one particular OM.
I have told just a couple times that people are only relaying info to me about this OM not all the others.
I have asked my sources to stop telling things as I feel I have enough info and have let it go.
My W told me a couple weeks ago in a mad sorta way. "The first time you told me you loved me in a year was after the support hearing and while we were discussing or rather you were telling me I was having an A and if my family knew."
I asked if she wanted to know why I haven't said "I love you" and she said she didn't so I left it go.
I think maybe our WAW may be seeing some of our detachment and not liking it so much.
If I/you aren't getting mad at the things they do or we aren't moping around waiting for them then WAW try to turn it around on LBH and get upset to try and draw us in to an argument hoping we get mad and yell so they can justify their position which makes them all the more upset when this doesn't happen.
Starsky and Train, I have been called holier than thou almost every time we have a talk, which is about 7 times in 14 months, so it is definitely like WAW have a book that they memorize and spit out on the occasion of these chats.
Sho, hang in there you'll be fine!! I hope to also be the same at some point.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
