You already know the answer to this question my friend. :-)
Take two steps back and consider the source.
Brook, who are these two people really? I don't care how shiny and new and whatever she is...she felt she had to break up someone's marriage in order to create her own life with this man. In MY WORLD VIEW, that's the definition of a crazy B.
That's not who you are Brook.
Look at them honestly. Not the image they convey...but, the reality. How much time has this man spent with his daughters? How often does he put their needs first on his list of priorities?
Ask yourself these questions:
Is he someone who has his priorities aligned?
Is she someone you would choose to be friends with if you weren't the LBS?
I'm sure he has some good qualities...but, for the person YOU ARE TODAY...is he someone you would choose to be with FOREVER? Someone who has done the things he has done?
Consider the source Brook. These two people are leading such a shallow existence, beating you up is how they choose to spend their time? Is that the mark of a healthy relationship? One built on the destruction of another person/another family/a hotbed of lies and dishonesty.
Alcoholics project Brook. Get into your Invisible plane Wonder Woman and allow the crappola to ricochet off the sides. It's not your shame to carry...it's their's.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
