More later, sho, but this is all standard behavior/speech for a cheating spouse. I'm pretty sure Starsky tried to warn and prepare you for it.
(Have you read back through your threads for all those little nuggets you've maybe forgotten?)
It's "script." And I've always said it's almost like they have a book for it somewhere that the waywards read. They all say the SAME things. It would be laughable. If it was funny.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014