Because if you are not crazy - what's his excuse? WAS need constant fuel to their fire somehow.
Let them think what they want... but let it go. And I don't mean let go of what happened and shrug it off.. I mean let go of the hope that your H is going to perceive you differently than how he does currently....
.. because the only person who can change that perspective is himself.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.