W texted me while up north at father son camp with poor cell service. "Call me before you get home." "I cleaned out your room." I respond what does son know about any of this? Is this the best way for him? W -" We need to tell him." Me - I thought we would tell him before you did this. W - You can tell him I cleaned out your room if you want. I left all your work clothes and sealed the wood floor.
One day she can't do this to our son and three days later she's moving me out. When I got home I asked her what changed and she said it was because I'm not putting all my check in our joint acct and closed the home equity account. I said I had put enough money in the acct to cover all our bills and the home equity line has been frozen and can be used with both of our signature's. I had let her know about this when I said I'm no longer depositing all of my check. When you bought a mannequin that was the when I felt I needed to do something to protect myself and family. (We don't have a clothing store and now the mannequin is set up in our kitchen / family room.) The financial changes were made shortly before she said she couldn't do this to our son. Now she done her own 180.
Thought W would have wanted to spend sometime with son after our trip but she made plans to go see a movie after we got home.
Just when you think the ride might be coming to a stop. I seem to go again.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14