Excuses. Romance left when child came along, we go lost in life and it snowballed. I am romantic and fun. She always said she loved it about me. Hope this therapist can help us. Sandi2, she says she wants a D and was the one that filed. I am hoping some honest, open discussion can help her see this is not the answer. She wants to be best friends....co parent, says we will see each other all the time...etc. I feel she sees my detachment as her getting through to me and she is getting what she wants. My 180's have been noticed. What now? I can continue and will, this is for me. However, the detachment only means tomorrow in therapy she will have a BD on her. See?
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
