She called me a couple of times this weekend to chat. I did for a bit, but was on my way to a party. Told her I was out and needed to go. She called me back at the party, I answered and she heard I was having a good time Im sure. She asked me to come watch the animals today. Since I had not seen them I agreed and knew they needed to be taken care of. I have not been here in over 3 weeks, looking forward to moving back in october.
Confirmed that she flew to see OM.. time to take care of myself emotionally and financially. Gonna tell her that I won't stand for this and start planning for my future. I would love her to come back to me, but she needs to stop this affair and quit looking for other men and putting herself in positions to meet other men... that is very disrespectful to me. I know she doesnt want to hurt me, but she needs to know how hurtful and disrespectful this has been to me, our marriage and our friendship. Then I will continue to be dark until october when i move bac and continue my GAL. Any thoughts?
Me 31 Her 30 M 5.5 T 11 0 Kids Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13 Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14
