Originally Posted By: shodan
We talked some more and I realized that by asking for the truth, I am pushing her away b/c she thinks that is controlling of me.

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I don't believe her but I think my tactic of pushing for the truth won't work. I need to show her that I am not controlling.


Who told you to "push for the truth?" In fact I'm pretty sure I specifically said NOT to. Only to end the convo and walk away if she lied to you.

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