Maybe so, but reframing this as "negotiating conflict in a mature and healthy way" would make a GREAT 180. In the course of separation and divorce there will inevitably be conflict so you will have a chance to use your new skills if you make the effort to acquire them.
I came from a conflict-averse relationship too, and so whenever there was disagreement one or the other simply gave in. It looked like we didn't fight, but instead we lost respect for each other and were resentful and passive aggressive. I had to learn to be more brave and assertive about airing difficult topics, and I wish I had more skill in this area. Working on it with my IC.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
