Originally Posted By: LoisB
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sandi, the reason she doesnt is because it would force her to take responsibility for her contribution to the situation. the majority of MMs posts lack important details that change the perspective drastically, its a form of manipulation/control my x uses also. when reading her posts theres always this nagging feeling something just isnt right, something is missing. its only later when questioned that further details emerge and you get that Aha moment, when it all makes sense.


AMEN.

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Nothing counted but thoroughness and honesty. Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous: Chapter: How It Works


MM, you gotta want this freedom so much that you are WILLING to BE RIGOROUSLY HONEST with yourself and others. I'm not sure you want it that badly...yet.


I think you're probably right.


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)